He Abandoned Me When I Was Pregnant Now He Wants The Child

Dear Eve,
I urgently need your advice before I make this decision that might affect my child and I.After I dated Ayomide for six months I took in.when I told him that I was pregnant he wasn't happy about it.he told me that he was not ready to be a father yet.When I told his mum she said she is not in support of her son becoming a father if he isn't ready.I was left alone,I cared for myself financially until I delivered the baby.Now my baby is a year old,when He saw my baby's one year birthday celebration on social media he slid into my dm and said he wanted to reconcile with me.Since then he has Been begging to see his child,not only that he wants the child now he wants us to be together.
Life has been so difficult for me financially,I don't know if I should take him back or not.My family said they don't want him to have the child so I don't  know what to do,please what should I do?
Sharon.

Dear Sharon,
You made a mistake by getting pregnant for a man who was not even prepared for it.You also did the right thing by not aborting the child.Now what you should do is to let him see his child,let him have aceess to the child.And he can also assist financially because come rain com shine,the child is his child and nothing can change that.Even if you don't allow him have the child later in life that child will still go back to him.
But for you don't  accept him back,he left you when you needed him most,now he is coming back because you have something he needs.go on with your life,meet another man and start over again.if you should go back to him now and another challenge springs up he will still leave you and run away.Face your life a better man who will stand still to his responsibilities will come.
Goodluck