Dear Eve,
My name is Chioma and I'm 28 year old.I met a guy few months ago,when he asked me out I agreed to date him cos I wanted to forget about my ex.he is good looking,has a good job but not entirely my type.he talks so loudly,he jokes a lot,he doesn't know how to comport himself in public and all this turns me off.
Recently his younger brother came visiting,I fell in love with him.he behaves exactly the way I want.he speaks so well and well mannered.he is opposite of all his brother isn't.
Ma,I'm so confused,I don't know if it will be wise for me to tell him what I feel about him.
Please I need your advice ma.
Dear Chioma,
It is not wrong for you to have a feeling for someone.it is normal but what your focus should be is does this person feel the same way for you?From all you said this guy has no notice of you.What I think you should do is to concentrate on your boyfriend.Forget about his flawless and let yourself see those good side of him.Most people get hooked up to people with flawless but turns out to make perfect couple.
What every woman should be looking for is a man who is in love with her,and from what you said this young man is in love with you while the brother you are killing yourself for isnt in love with you.You might not even be his type.have imagined what will happen if both of them should know that you are admiring his younger brother.Your said crush might take advantage of you and you will end up dividing the family you suppose to build up and in the long run they will tag you a cheat,crazy and all sort of that.i advice you erase any thought you have for this guy and concentrate on building a better relationship with your boyfriend but if you can't be in that relationship is better you quit and find another person not related to your boyfriend.be wise and careful thank you.
Wednesday 29 March 2017
Monday 27 March 2017
He wants to dump me because his people don't approve of our relationship
Dear eve,
My boyfriend of two years wants to quit the relationship because his parents doesn't want him to marry from a different tribe.it all started six months ago,after we went to visit his parents house he change from the person I knew to someone else entirely.I became so bothered and I kept on asking him to tell me his problem,to the reason why he distanced his self from me,he always have an excuse why he won't pick my calls,He doesn't allow me visit his house anymore.
That is when he told me that his parents told him to quit anything he is having with me because am not from their Igbo tribe.i talked to him,I begged him to stand and fight this fight with me.he promised to talk to his parents but up till now his character is Still the same.he won't call or else I call him,he gives so much excuses for his behavior.i feel depressed and confuse.What should I do to win him back.
Dear,
I sincerely think that you should move on with your life.remove love from this and use common sense.A guy who truly love you can never,I repeat can never leave you because his parents says so.When people say that love is blind,believe it girlfriend,love is truly blind that is the reason why Jacob labored for Leah for fourteen years because he knows he is fighting for who he loves.for this guy to changed his character means he is not ready for you,what he should have done is take you to his parents house again,both of you should be there like two weeks.he will use that opportunity to talk to his parents with you and let them know what you mean to each other.
Who know if he is lying against his parents since he is this fast to hit the road what happens tomorrow if something bigger than this situation should occur what will he do.will he be able to stay if you can't bear a child,will he be able to stay if you have a terminal disease,all this you should asked yourself and you will believe me when I tell you that this guy doesn't love you as you love him and that Is an error.you shouldn't be the one begging him to stay,it is his duty to love you and be able to stand with you in good time and bad time.so move ahead with your life and a better man will show up soon.
My boyfriend of two years wants to quit the relationship because his parents doesn't want him to marry from a different tribe.it all started six months ago,after we went to visit his parents house he change from the person I knew to someone else entirely.I became so bothered and I kept on asking him to tell me his problem,to the reason why he distanced his self from me,he always have an excuse why he won't pick my calls,He doesn't allow me visit his house anymore.
That is when he told me that his parents told him to quit anything he is having with me because am not from their Igbo tribe.i talked to him,I begged him to stand and fight this fight with me.he promised to talk to his parents but up till now his character is Still the same.he won't call or else I call him,he gives so much excuses for his behavior.i feel depressed and confuse.What should I do to win him back.
Dear,
I sincerely think that you should move on with your life.remove love from this and use common sense.A guy who truly love you can never,I repeat can never leave you because his parents says so.When people say that love is blind,believe it girlfriend,love is truly blind that is the reason why Jacob labored for Leah for fourteen years because he knows he is fighting for who he loves.for this guy to changed his character means he is not ready for you,what he should have done is take you to his parents house again,both of you should be there like two weeks.he will use that opportunity to talk to his parents with you and let them know what you mean to each other.
Who know if he is lying against his parents since he is this fast to hit the road what happens tomorrow if something bigger than this situation should occur what will he do.will he be able to stay if you can't bear a child,will he be able to stay if you have a terminal disease,all this you should asked yourself and you will believe me when I tell you that this guy doesn't love you as you love him and that Is an error.you shouldn't be the one begging him to stay,it is his duty to love you and be able to stand with you in good time and bad time.so move ahead with your life and a better man will show up soon.
He wants to dump me because his people said so.Dear Eve,I'm heartbroken and depressed,I feel like to commit suicide because my boyfriend of two years want to dump.this started six months ago,after he instroduced me to his people.his people don't want me to get married to him because I come from a different tribe.We met through a friend two years ago.we fell in love with each other immediately we loved ourself sincerely and was more like best friends.but his attitude changed six months ago after he came to my house and told me that he can't continue with the relationship because his parents am told him he must marry from their Igbo tribe and no tribe else since he is the only son.i have tried talking to him,I have told him to see reasons why we should fight for our love.but he insists that his parents will be heartbroken if he should disobey them.i am heartbroken and can't move on because I love him so much what do I do eve? Dear kehinde,I must say that I'm moved by your pure love for this guy and I must say that this guy doesn't know love you as much as you love him.someone who claims to be in love with you for two years should be able to stand beside you in tough time like this.someone who truly love you should be able to stand with you in good and bad time.i think you should move on with your life.come to think of it how do you know that he isn't not lying against his parents in order to have reasons to dump you.have he talked to his parents??have he tried to take you to his parents and both of you really love each other as you explained.both of you should talk to them,tell them how much you mean to each other that is what both of you should have done.But he is ready to hit the road that means he is not ready for you,he can't sacrifice anything for you,he can't bear any pain for you so if he marries you tommorow he will be ready to divorce you if his parents should complain of anything concerning you.he be ready to take off if any hard situation should arise.so dear wipe your tears and wait impatiently for the man who will stand with you in any situation.
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