Friday 23 March 2018

HELP MY HUSBAND WHO IS A PASTOR IS A RITUALIST..

Dear Eve,
I'm in a helpless situation but I will go straight to the point.my husband is the founder of the church he pastorS here in Warri,Delta state. The church was four years old when I got married to him fours ago.at the church miracles takes place, there is commotion of miracles and we are adore by members of the church.our members keep increasing by the day and now we have added a school to it too,my husband loves me and he plays his fatherly role to our daughter.some of the miracle testifiers are paid to testify. Some are brought from far states and are paid to testify to one miracle or the other and this increases our members.
But truth is that my husband is a ritualist, his miracles are not from God and the increase in church members are all through fetish means.
All this started one month after our wedding,My mother in law came to visit us. After dinner three of us would sit and chat into the night,but I would always go to bed before them.i didn't know that my husband was having sexual relationship with his mother.they always chat till I am forced to leave them and go to bed then one night,by 1am I woke up and went to the parlour to invite my husband to bed,i didn't see him or the mom.As I went to call him in his mother's room,i caught him on top of his mother,having sex.
I screamed and ran into our room,both of them came into our room where I was weeping and told me a story that sounds like a nollywood story.
My mother in law said she was doing it to save her children from poverty.that after the death of her husband,they lived from hand to mouth,until my husband met an old friend of his who is from Anambra state.His old friend is a prophet based in Cotonou,he has the fastest growing church in Cotonou.he introduced my husband into the church business and the native Doctor Who prepares charm for him at Ijebu ode,Ondo state.my mother in law said that one of the things the native doctor gave my husband for church growth and financially increase is having sexual relationship with his mother.she agreed to it in order to help her son.
He and his mother brought out a Little calabash with some items inside and made me swear not to tell anyone.that if I do I will die.since then I have kept mute until now, because I can't bear it anymore,My husband brought in different types of juju into the house,he sleeps with his single and married members.he said I own the new school and all the money is mine but I fear for my life  and can't stay in this marriage anymore.our daughter is a year and nine months old and I want to run away from this house.my mom is very sick now and something keep telling me that my husband might have a hand in it but am not sure.i don't feel safe at night, I don't feel safe whenever he is making love to me. The church members sees me happy but they don't know what I'm passing through inward. I'm afraid of leaving so that he won't kill me.
Help me eve,pastor Ifechukwudenu.



                        Our Word
Dear pastor Ifechukwudenu,
You have been in this marriage for fours years,you have been climbing the altar as a pastor too and you and your husband have been deceiving thousands for fours years now? Why the sudden change of heart. You have been witnessing sexual relationship between your Husband and your mother in law until now? Dear you are bound to your husband until death do you apart so stay there.1 Corinthians 7:39 says you are bound to your husband as long as he lives so Pastor you have to submit to your husband.
Your have been afraid that was why you kept this secret for fours years?who told you that you are now free from the oath, honey you are still under that oath.sorry that I am harsh but the truth is that you have to continue keeping that secret because you women of our days I don't know why you keep fooling yourselves with excuses. It was that day you found out this issue that you suppose to pack back to your father's house.but I'm sure you remain in that horrible house because of the title and money.now you are afraid of death? Why didn't you run to your mother,you kept quite,living in lies.my advice is that you keep praying to God to change your husband and more especially watch the movie War Room.


Saturday 10 March 2018

I Am Pregnant For My Late Fiance...

Dear eve,
   My name is Adaobi,Am 37 years of age,i  met my late fiancĂ© a year ago,three months later he proposed.it was a great testimony for me because most of my agemates are married with kids, my younger ones are married. Before I met Michael my late fiancĂ© people have started mocking me, the world have asked questions and my mother have said lots of time that she is ashamed of me. I slept in shame and pain, I have gone to different churches but my age kept going up but no suitors was coming until last year when I met Michael. He was everything I wanted in a man, he proposed after three months my joy was of no comparison.
We did the introduction and I took in immediately,we kick off with our wedding plans.
Our wedding was three weeks away when my fiance died in a motor accident on his way to work. He was married last November.
My dowry has not been paid and am pregnant at 37 years.i do not know what to do now, my shame has been increased.i do  not know who did this to me, who took my joy away, who tampered with my blessing?how can I become a single mom at 37?how do I keep the baby whose father is late? Who will marry me now that am going to be a single mom at 37?please help me Eve because I'm confused,.
 Adaobi.

Dear Adaobi,
I'm deeply sorry for your lost,one can tell what you are going through.but I want you to know first of all that God truly loves you and he knows what you are going through and he promised to be with us in our time of trouble,he never sleep nor slumber.
Dear you have been through alot starting from getting married late and the death of your man at the edge of marriage but he said in all things we should give thanks.
What you need now is to get strong for your baby,you will keep that bundle of joy and wait for what God will do. Do not look at what people have said Or will say.focus your mind on what God is saying... He said he will never leave or forsake you, dear buckle up and keep strong.
Jesus has already bore your shame on the cross, he has carried your problems away in his grave why then do you bother?
That child in your womb will weep your tears away, he will dry your tears and make you happy OK.
Dont bother about what he will eat for God said he will supply all our needs according to his riches in glory.he open the womb of Sarah at 90,he cause Lazarus to come up from dead at four days? What can't he do please relaxed for he that gave you that child will bring his provision OK.
He will be your husband and you will be gloriously married soon.