My name is Bola and my wedding is coming up by March,congrats to me.
The problem is that my Bestfriend is insisting on being my event planner.she is new in the business and I can't turn her down but deep down I don't want her to be the planner.she hasnt not done any event before.I want an experience planner to cover the event.
She said she will do it free but my man said he also doesn't want her too.We are afraid she might not be able to do it right.i don't know how to turn her down pls advise me on what to do.
Bola.
Dear Bola,
You thinking about your friend's feeling means a lot.it shows how a good friend you are to her.
What you should do is to hire her and hire another experience event planner.it is giving her a chance to kick start her own career too.If you don't give her a chance to prove herself who would,it's better you let her make herself proud and help you as well.
You have to explain to your man what this job means to your friend and what helping her means to you too and you also have to explain to your friend why you need to hire an additional planner.Let her know it's to make the job easy for her.she working with the your experienced planner could help her learn more.congrats on advance.wedding
