I work In A Morgue.. I can't stop sleeping with female corpse

Dear eve,
I started helping my dad in the mortuary where he works after my secondary school in year 2007.shortly I noticed that my Dad sleeps with corpse there.i banged in in him one faithfully evening having sex with a corpse of a woman who the family deposited in the afternoon that very day.Dad sent me to buy food for him while he dresses the corpse.i didn't know that was his way of sending me away so that he can have sexual intercourse with the corpse.when I banged in on him he begged me not tell anyone.i never did until he passed away in 2012.But since after that day I started practicing what I saw.i started molesting female corpse whenever my dad and nobody else was at sight.it became a habit that I couldn't break.
I have no desire for any other girl but the corpse in the mortuary.even when I got admission into the University,i applied for a job in a morgue,to people it was to get financial help but no, it was for me to be able to satisfy my sexual urge.even after graduation I still work in a mortuary while my mates are going for higher achievement,im still working in a morgue so that I can fulfill my heart desire which is making love with dead women whenever no one is around.i have gone to mountain of fire and other ministries for deliverance but I can never be satisfied whenever I have sex with any other woman until I do it with a corpse.

Effiong.

Dear Effiong,
This is not only a case of deliverance but a case of destroying strongholds and habits.first of all you need to quit working in a mortuary.accepts Jesus as your lord and personal Savior first, and believe sincerely that he died on the cross of Calvary for your sake and have set you free.then start proclaiming your freedom from pit of darkness every minutes of the day.
This is not just an ordinary act but an attack on your destiny from pit of hell.deternine in your heart that you want to be free and no matter how much the urge comes over you and when it comes go out to where you won't be alone.
Secondly look for help from trusted family members,tell them your problem and get them to always pray and stay around you.i will keep on praying for you.

He Dumped Me After Two Years,I Can't Get Over It.

Dear Eve,
My heart is aching,I'm in so much pain and agony,he broke my heart in a way I never expected.I don't know how to get over it.
I met Kanyine in 2014 on Facebook,he was residing in Germany then.we became more of friends and lovers.we spent hours talking on phone everyday.four months after we met he sent money to me to start erecting a house on a piece of land he brought before he traveled. He sent to me to his village to spend a month with his mom and his older sisters,being the only son he wanted his mother to be close to his wife to be.I thought he was joking until he started sending pictures of wedding gowns to me and asked me to choose the one I would love.I made my choice and he bought it for me.one year after our meeting he came back,my hope knows no bound.he asked me to pack into the new house with him which I did and he proposed weeks after,we lived together for a year and ten months.
 Few months after I packed into his housr he started complaining about me.nothing I did was good again,all my character was wrong in his eyes.I won't lie,they was sometimes when I will stand up for myself and it will always result in beating.he was beating me as if I'm his fellow man.
5months ago,his younger brother visited.I tried being nice to him also but he always give a cold shoulder.I didn't know what his brother told him about me because he always avoid me.then one day he asked me to make bed for him I refused and he reported me to his brother,my fiance.when my fiance asked me I told him I can't make bed for somone who avoids me.he became angry and said that i'm very disrespectful.we argued and he started punching me.his brother was just standing,he made no effort to separate us.after the fight Kanyine asked me out of the house and threw my things outside.i slept in a friends house and the next day I travelled to his mother's place.narrated the story to her,she said I should go to Owerri,that she will speak her son and get back to me.I called her the next day,she didn't pick,I sent numerous messages,she didn't reply.my mother talked to my fiance and he said I should give him time to calm down.
One month later I was shocked to my marrow when I saw my fiance's pre-wedding photographys on social media. He got married to a girl from the same church where we worship with the same wedding gown he bought for me.
Since then I have been a shadow of myself,living in pain and agony.i have been broken financially because we partner in the business he started when he came back.
Please how do I get over this.
Agnes.


Dear Agnes,
For a year and ten months you have been living together with a man who wasn't married to you.certainly the relationship broke up because you laid a faulty foundation.you had a sinful foundation.as a matter of fact you are not suppose to live in the same house with a man who hasn't pay your dowry because certainly both of you will start seeing faulty in no distance time and between God and africa culture its wrong.moreover you refusing to make bed for his younger brother was bad too.as a woman you suppose not to wait until you are asked or begged before you make the bed.you suppose to do it before he ask.you were wrong, very wrong honey.
Yes his younger brother was avoiding you but did you take time to ask him why,being his younger brother also means he is your fiance and its your duty to bring happiness,kindness and care to your home.what is kindness if you don't care enough to ask your soon to be brother in law why his attitude toward you changed.assume you asked him it wouldnt have been like this.
I'm not saying that you are entirely wrong but I'm trying to point out the few areas you failed.arguing with a man in his entire self is wrong.that is the best way to avoid the beating.am not justifying domestic violence but women who try to talk with their action rather than words have more peaceful home.
You are broken now because you were busy building his business with him and weren't building yourself in anywhere.this man was beating you and stay put in the relationship and no time did you try to shake this off by packing out for a while.you turn yourself into a prey.
For his mother to promise talking to her son and the same time stopped taking you calls shows that this people wanted you out but you failed to understand this.
The best thing to do now is to kneel down and beg God to forgive for the fornication you committed with your ex and start building a new relationship with God.a sincere relationship with God first will bring a better relationship with your partner.
Get involve in things that will make you forget your ex,don't try to remember how sweet memories you had,let the past pass.erase the old memories and build up head with the words of proverb everyday.exercise and go out with new friends.
God will certainly give you a better man soon.

HELP MY HUSBAND WHO IS A PASTOR IS A RITUALIST..

Dear Eve,
I'm in a helpless situation but I will go straight to the point.my husband is the founder of the church he pastorS here in Warri,Delta state. The church was four years old when I got married to him fours ago.at the church miracles takes place, there is commotion of miracles and we are adore by members of the church.our members keep increasing by the day and now we have added a school to it too,my husband loves me and he plays his fatherly role to our daughter.some of the miracle testifiers are paid to testify. Some are brought from far states and are paid to testify to one miracle or the other and this increases our members.
But truth is that my husband is a ritualist, his miracles are not from God and the increase in church members are all through fetish means.
All this started one month after our wedding,My mother in law came to visit us. After dinner three of us would sit and chat into the night,but I would always go to bed before them.i didn't know that my husband was having sexual relationship with his mother.they always chat till I am forced to leave them and go to bed then one night,by 1am I woke up and went to the parlour to invite my husband to bed,i didn't see him or the mom.As I went to call him in his mother's room,i caught him on top of his mother,having sex.
I screamed and ran into our room,both of them came into our room where I was weeping and told me a story that sounds like a nollywood story.
My mother in law said she was doing it to save her children from poverty.that after the death of her husband,they lived from hand to mouth,until my husband met an old friend of his who is from Anambra state.His old friend is a prophet based in Cotonou,he has the fastest growing church in Cotonou.he introduced my husband into the church business and the native Doctor Who prepares charm for him at Ijebu ode,Ondo state.my mother in law said that one of the things the native doctor gave my husband for church growth and financially increase is having sexual relationship with his mother.she agreed to it in order to help her son.
He and his mother brought out a Little calabash with some items inside and made me swear not to tell anyone.that if I do I will die.since then I have kept mute until now, because I can't bear it anymore,My husband brought in different types of juju into the house,he sleeps with his single and married members.he said I own the new school and all the money is mine but I fear for my life  and can't stay in this marriage anymore.our daughter is a year and nine months old and I want to run away from this house.my mom is very sick now and something keep telling me that my husband might have a hand in it but am not sure.i don't feel safe at night, I don't feel safe whenever he is making love to me. The church members sees me happy but they don't know what I'm passing through inward. I'm afraid of leaving so that he won't kill me.
Help me eve,pastor Ifechukwudenu.



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Dear pastor Ifechukwudenu,
You have been in this marriage for fours years,you have been climbing the altar as a pastor too and you and your husband have been deceiving thousands for fours years now? Why the sudden change of heart. You have been witnessing sexual relationship between your Husband and your mother in law until now? Dear you are bound to your husband until death do you apart so stay there.1 Corinthians 7:39 says you are bound to your husband as long as he lives so Pastor you have to submit to your husband.
Your have been afraid that was why you kept this secret for fours years?who told you that you are now free from the oath, honey you are still under that oath.sorry that I am harsh but the truth is that you have to continue keeping that secret because you women of our days I don't know why you keep fooling yourselves with excuses. It was that day you found out this issue that you suppose to pack back to your father's house.but I'm sure you remain in that horrible house because of the title and money.now you are afraid of death? Why didn't you run to your mother,you kept quite,living in lies.my advice is that you keep praying to God to change your husband and more especially watch the movie War Room.

I Am Pregnant For My Late Fiance...

Dear eve,
   My name is Adaobi,Am 37 years of age,i  met my late fiancé a year ago,three months later he proposed.it was a great testimony for me because most of my agemates are married with kids, my younger ones are married. Before I met Michael my late fiancé people have started mocking me, the world have asked questions and my mother have said lots of time that she is ashamed of me. I slept in shame and pain, I have gone to different churches but my age kept going up but no suitors was coming until last year when I met Michael. He was everything I wanted in a man, he proposed after three months my joy was of no comparison.
We did the introduction and I took in immediately,we kick off with our wedding plans.
Our wedding was three weeks away when my fiance died in a motor accident on his way to work. He was married last November.
My dowry has not been paid and am pregnant at 37 years.i do not know what to do now, my shame has been increased.i do  not know who did this to me, who took my joy away, who tampered with my blessing?how can I become a single mom at 37?how do I keep the baby whose father is late? Who will marry me now that am going to be a single mom at 37?please help me Eve because I'm confused,.
 Adaobi.

Dear Adaobi,
I'm deeply sorry for your lost,one can tell what you are going through.but I want you to know first of all that God truly loves you and he knows what you are going through and he promised to be with us in our time of trouble,he never sleep nor slumber.
Dear you have been through alot starting from getting married late and the death of your man at the edge of marriage but he said in all things we should give thanks.
What you need now is to get strong for your baby,you will keep that bundle of joy and wait for what God will do. Do not look at what people have said Or will say.focus your mind on what God is saying... He said he will never leave or forsake you, dear buckle up and keep strong.
Jesus has already bore your shame on the cross, he has carried your problems away in his grave why then do you bother?
That child in your womb will weep your tears away, he will dry your tears and make you happy OK.
Dont bother about what he will eat for God said he will supply all our needs according to his riches in glory.he open the womb of Sarah at 90,he cause Lazarus to come up from dead at four days? What can't he do please relaxed for he that gave you that child will bring his provision OK.
He will be your husband and you will be gloriously married soon.