Dear Eve,
I and my husband were deported from the U.s four months ago.i delivered my son two months after arriving Nigeria.my mum has been in our house since then but sometime seem to be going on between her and my husband.
My husband has been able to start something of his own since we came here so he spend all this time at home only on few occasions he went out with friends.Anytime he is at home he chat with my mom endlessly.Whenever my mum is cooking he will offer to help her out in the kitchen,after I have gone to bed they will still be watching one film after another.this triggers some suspense in me because of what I see on television and read on books,about mother in law having affairs with son in law.i have tried to confront my husband but I don't want to accuse him wrongly and break my home.
Please what should I do?
Anna.
Dear Anna,
Firstly,you are not wrong by suspecting them because you are a human being but what you actually feeling is jealousy but before you have this feeling it shows you have known what your mother and husband can do.
You have to cheek what your mom and husband are capable of doing,in order words what kind of persons are they?when you have put this together then you can be able to know if you are safe or not.
Then don't ask any of them this question because you might be accusing them wrongly like you said but you can always join them in the kitchen,watch the television with them or you can sleep in your husband's lap until he is ready to go to bed because he might just be playing the role of a good soon to your mom.Since he isn't not working now he might not be sleeping so early so dismiss all those your feeling or would you prefer your mom and husband fighting all the time.Would you like it if your mom is fighting him all the time or him complaining about your mom all the time so dear your role now is to join them in being a happy family.
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