How Do I cope With My Boyfriend's Babymama and The Baby.
Dear Eve,
My boyfriend of Six months,whom i love so much has a baby with another woman before we met.he told me about the baby mama and the baby and i accepted to be with him no matter the circumstances surrounding the relationship.At first the going was ok.i move along with the relationship,loving the baby boy as mine but i dont think i can do it anymore because the baby mama suddenly started coming close to my man,this makes me uncomfortable.
My boyfriend and the baby mama exchanges phone Call everyday in the name of co-parenting.she Calls in the midnight to report the child is ill or about school issues.One night,she called by 9pm and immediately my boyfriend rushed out to her home because the baby had a little fever.She clearerly wants my man.
I think she is using the baby as an excuse to come close to him and anytime i complain my boyfriend will understand it that i'm too sensitive and jealous.I really want to confront her.i want her to stay away from my Man or should i get pregnant to retain my stand with him?
What Do you Advice i should do?
May.
Dear Mary,
Honey it's wise of you that you that you seek for an advice before you take a step you might regret later one life.One,it's alright you feel the way you do.Every woman who is in love will certainly feel threatened by the presence of another woman around her man.
To be honest it's best you have one on one discussion with your man.let him clarify you on your stand with him.Anything he tells you,take it accept it that way and watch.That he is in constant communication with his baby mama is not unusual for separated parents co-parenting a child.for him to always listen to her means he is a good man and respectful too.Remember the lady in question is not just a regular girl trying to get her way with him.No,she was with him,infact the mother of his child.The relationship have come to stay,it now left for you to know if you can cope with it because even if he marries you tommorow he can't stop coperating with his baby mama in order to raise the child until the child can take care of himself.
In order hands,they can still be in love but the guy might be playing a nice guy in order not to hurt you.so the best step in all this is to have a heart discussion with him in order to know whether to move on with your life or not.if he is still in love with her do not try to fight just walk away.commit it all into the hands of God and watch how your own miracle will come.It's much better to be single than to be with a man whose heart is with another.
Don't ever try to get pregnant in order to
Keep him.If the other lady can't keep him with a child why do you think it will work for you.Having a child will only show how desperate you are to keep him.Great woman do not compete for love they compete for greatness.The heart knows where it belongs.so if his heart doesn't belong to you no method can keep him.I pray you approach this issue with prayer and wisdom.bye
Dear Eve,
My boyfriend of Six months,whom i love so much has a baby with another woman before we met.he told me about the baby mama and the baby and i accepted to be with him no matter the circumstances surrounding the relationship.At first the going was ok.i move along with the relationship,loving the baby boy as mine but i dont think i can do it anymore because the baby mama suddenly started coming close to my man,this makes me uncomfortable.
My boyfriend and the baby mama exchanges phone Call everyday in the name of co-parenting.she Calls in the midnight to report the child is ill or about school issues.One night,she called by 9pm and immediately my boyfriend rushed out to her home because the baby had a little fever.She clearerly wants my man.
I think she is using the baby as an excuse to come close to him and anytime i complain my boyfriend will understand it that i'm too sensitive and jealous.I really want to confront her.i want her to stay away from my Man or should i get pregnant to retain my stand with him?
What Do you Advice i should do?
May.
Dear Mary,
Honey it's wise of you that you that you seek for an advice before you take a step you might regret later one life.One,it's alright you feel the way you do.Every woman who is in love will certainly feel threatened by the presence of another woman around her man.
To be honest it's best you have one on one discussion with your man.let him clarify you on your stand with him.Anything he tells you,take it accept it that way and watch.That he is in constant communication with his baby mama is not unusual for separated parents co-parenting a child.for him to always listen to her means he is a good man and respectful too.Remember the lady in question is not just a regular girl trying to get her way with him.No,she was with him,infact the mother of his child.The relationship have come to stay,it now left for you to know if you can cope with it because even if he marries you tommorow he can't stop coperating with his baby mama in order to raise the child until the child can take care of himself.
In order hands,they can still be in love but the guy might be playing a nice guy in order not to hurt you.so the best step in all this is to have a heart discussion with him in order to know whether to move on with your life or not.if he is still in love with her do not try to fight just walk away.commit it all into the hands of God and watch how your own miracle will come.It's much better to be single than to be with a man whose heart is with another.
Don't ever try to get pregnant in order to
Keep him.If the other lady can't keep him with a child why do you think it will work for you.Having a child will only show how desperate you are to keep him.Great woman do not compete for love they compete for greatness.The heart knows where it belongs.so if his heart doesn't belong to you no method can keep him.I pray you approach this issue with prayer and wisdom.bye
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