I am in love with my boyfriend's younger brother

Dear Eve,
My name is Chioma and I'm 28 year old.I met a guy few months ago,when he asked me out I agreed to date him cos I wanted to forget about my ex.he is good looking,has a good job but not entirely my type.he talks so loudly,he jokes a lot,he doesn't know how to comport himself in  public and all this turns me off.
Recently his younger brother came visiting,I fell in love with him.he behaves exactly the way I want.he speaks so well and well mannered.he is opposite of all his brother isn't.
Ma,I'm so confused,I don't know if it will be wise for me to tell him what I feel about him.
Please I need your advice ma.


Dear Chioma,
It is not wrong for you to have a feeling for someone.it is normal but what your focus should be is does this  person feel the same way for you?From all you said this guy has no notice of you.What I think you should do is to concentrate on your boyfriend.Forget about his flawless and let yourself see those good side of him.Most people get hooked up to people with flawless but turns out to make perfect couple.
What every woman should be looking for is a man who is in love with her,and from what you said this young man is in love with you while the brother you are killing yourself for isnt in love with you.You might not even be his type.have imagined what will happen if both of them should know that you are admiring his younger brother.Your said crush might take advantage of you and you will end up dividing the family you suppose to build up and in the long run they will tag you a cheat,crazy and all sort of that.i advice you erase any thought you have for this guy and concentrate on building a better relationship with your boyfriend but if you can't be in that relationship is better you quit and find another person not related to your boyfriend.be wise and careful thank you.