Monday 27 March 2017

He wants to dump me because his people don't approve of our relationship

Dear eve,
My boyfriend of two years wants to quit the relationship because his parents doesn't want him to marry from a different tribe.it all started six months ago,after we went to visit his parents house he change from the person I knew to someone else entirely.I became so bothered and I kept on asking him to tell me his problem,to the reason why he distanced his self from me,he always have an excuse why he won't pick my calls,He doesn't allow me visit his house anymore.
That is when he told me that his parents told him to quit anything he is having with me because am not from their Igbo tribe.i talked to him,I begged him to stand and fight this fight with me.he promised to talk to his parents but up till now his character is Still the same.he won't call or else I call him,he gives so much excuses for his behavior.i feel depressed and confuse.What should I do to win him back.
             Dear,
I sincerely think that you should move on with your life.remove love from this and use common sense.A guy who truly love you can never,I repeat can never leave you because his parents says so.When people say that love is blind,believe it girlfriend,love is truly blind that is the reason why Jacob labored for Leah for fourteen years because he knows he is fighting for who he loves.for this guy to changed his character means he is not ready for you,what he should have done is take you to his parents house again,both of you should be there like two weeks.he will use that opportunity to talk to his parents with you and let them know what you mean to each other.
Who know if he is lying against his parents since he is this fast to hit the road what happens tomorrow if something bigger than this situation should occur what will he do.will he be able to stay if you can't bear a child,will he be able to stay if you have a terminal disease,all this you should asked yourself and you will believe me when I tell you that this guy doesn't love you as you love him and that Is  an error.you shouldn't be the one begging him to stay,it is his duty to love you and be able to stand with you in good time and bad time.so move ahead with your life and a better man will show up soon.

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