Monday 27 March 2017

He wants to dump me because his people said so.Dear Eve,I'm heartbroken and depressed,I feel like to commit suicide because my boyfriend of two years want to dump.this started six months ago,after he instroduced me to his people.his people don't want me to get married to him because I come from a different tribe.We met through a friend two years ago.we fell in love with each other immediately we loved ourself sincerely and was more like best friends.but his attitude changed six months ago after he came to my house and told me that he can't continue with the relationship because his parents am told him he must marry from their Igbo tribe and no tribe else since he is the only son.i have tried talking to him,I have told him to see reasons why we should fight for our love.but he insists that his parents will be heartbroken if he should disobey them.i am heartbroken and can't move on because I love him so much what do I do eve? Dear kehinde,I must say that I'm moved by your pure love for this guy and I must say that this guy doesn't know love you as much as you love him.someone who claims to be in love with you for two years should be able to stand beside you in tough time like this.someone who truly love you should be able to stand with you in good and bad time.i think you should move on with your life.come to think of it how do you know that he isn't not lying against his parents in order to have reasons to dump you.have he talked to his parents??have he tried to take you to his parents and both of you really love each other as you explained.both of you should talk to them,tell them how much you mean to each other that is what both of you should have done.But he is ready to hit the road that means he is not ready for you,he can't sacrifice anything for you,he can't bear any pain for you so if he marries you tommorow he will be ready to divorce you if his parents should complain of anything concerning you.he be ready to take off if any hard situation should arise.so dear wipe your tears and wait impatiently for the man who will stand with you in any situation.

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