Dear Eve,
My name Is Kehinde and am 32 years old.I got married to my childhood heart rob eight years ago.But since then I have not been able to conceive.my parents and in laws are worried but I can't come clean and tell them that am the cause of my problem.
When I was in the university I aborted four times for my live in school boyfriend.The last one I did was five months old.I didn't want to abort it but my ex parents didn't accept me.i have no option but to abort the baby,I had complications through the process so my womb was affected.
I later got married to my childhood lover after my service year and since then I haven't been able to conceive.My husband cries anytime there is child dedication in our church or any child birthday around.He has been begging me to follow him to the hospital all these years but I have been telling him that is s doubt to our faith.
Last week,we went for a child dedication of a family friend,when he was asked to pray for the child,with the microphone in his hand he broke down and started crying.Im so confuse right now I don't know if I should tell him the truth or not.What should I do?
Dear Kehinde,
Your problem is a great one but you must to tell him.Who knows you might be able to conceive after confessing to him.Seeing him suffer like this I know you are not enjoying it right?So go and talk to your pastor first.your pastor should be the best person to tell him the truth.you can't handle it alone,he might not be able to handle it so you must need someone else he will respect to be there.he needs to know the truth,though he might be mad but trust me if he really love you he will stay even after knowing the truth,and believe me the doctors might have given their report concerning your womb but God's has not given his own report.Believe me all hope is not lost yet.
Good luck as you do so. OVER TO YOUR GUYS WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE TO KEHINDE DROP YOUR ADVICE ON THE COMMENTS Section below.
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